December 2018 - Minimalist Wardrobe · Minimalist Wardrobe

Minimalist Wardrobe – Week Three and Four

There is a book I used to pour over when I was kid. I’m not sure who got it for me or how it came to be in my possession, but I actually still own it. I found it again while doing my Marie Kondo method on all my books. Surprisingly it still sparked joy so I kept it. It’s called “Sally’s Room” by M.K Brown. My only guess is my Dad bought it for me as a joke as a child…or in the hopes it might bring inspiration. If it was the latter, it worked.

The books is about a girl named Sally who never cleaned her room. Her room hated it so much they finally decided to do something about it. They marched out of her room, down the street and straight into Sally’s school. Sally’s teacher asks who the room belongs to and defiantly Sally stands up and says it’s hers. And she likes it that way. Eventually she goes home to an empty room and realizes how much room there is in there without all her stuff. When the room barges back in, Sally realizes she has to finally face the facts and clean.

I used to take this book out every time I had to clean my room and follow Sally’s cleaning and organizing method. She puts all her games away, finds her favorite sweater, folds her clothes, makes her bed, etc. In the end she finds that it’s a room where anything can happen.

I pulled the book back out and felt like I’d been through Sally’s journey so many times in my life, but it finally feels like it’s going to stick.

I kind of always knew this about me, but I really love throwing things away. I love cleaning and organizing. Even with all this going for me I found it hard to give up a lot of items this month in my minimalist wardrobe challenge. I don’t miss them now though! I had bought so many clothes I never wore before. It seemed wasteful to throw them out. But did they spark joy? No, they just made me feel bad that they didn’t fit or didn’t turn out to be part of my style as much as I wanted them to be.

I ended up finishing “The Year of Less: How I Stopped Shopping, Gave Away My Belongings, and Discovered Life is Worth more Than Anything You Can Buy” By Cait Flanders. I don’t think I’ll be going through her exact path of only buying consumables for the year, but I did like her idea of only buying something when an older version of it is broke and needs to be replaced. She also inspired me to clean up my consumer debt. I don’t have a lot compared to the average American, but I have accumulated some from my wedding in October (photographers are expensive!). I’ve made a plan to set aside large chunks of my income each month to wipe out the debt by the end of May and before my zero interest runs out in August.

“One thing debt and clutter have in common is that as soon as you start letting it pile up, it can be harder and harder to see your way around it.”

Cait Flanders, The Year of Less

She also had a great idea of unfollowing all the stores, newsletters, etc. on social media accounts and unsubscribing from all of consumer emails. I started doing this and instead of 25 new emails in morning I’m getting about three. It’s a good start and I love not having the feeling of missing out when I get an email about picture frames on sale from Pier One with free shipping. I don’t need any more picture frames! And if I suddenly do, the Good Will has plenty of great options for $5 or less.

I have a plan for my wardrobe to become more capsule oriented and once I do my research and purchase the two items I’m really feeling I need to supplement in, then I think it will be complete. I’m really pleased with this journey and if you’re feeling like you want to declutter, organize and make getting dressing in the morning simple AF, let me know if I can help in any way! I am NOT an expert, but I’m feeling confident about the process.

Stay tuned for what my January challenge will be! Hint: It’s time to get honest.

December 2018 - Minimalist Wardrobe · Minimalist Wardrobe

Minimalist Wardrobe – Intro

Dressing yourself is hard. I always say if I won the lottery the first thing I’d do is hire someone to dress me. Everyone thinks they have a weird body type. I’ve heard people of all shapes and sizes complain about it, so if you think someone has the ‘perfect’ body, they’re probably pissed off about something you’ve never even really noticed in them. 

“I’m too tall, my pants always turn into capri’s.”

“I’m too short, everything has to be rolled up.”

“I have a [insert: pear, rectangle, hourglass, inverted triangle, big bird, pencil, noodle, barge] shape.”

“I can’t do crop tops.”

The point is, we’re all a little insecure. I have so many clothes and shoes and only two outfits I feel really comfortable in. So what am I doing with all this extra stuff? Feeling bad about myself, that’s what. Once I wear my two favorite outfits I itch to do some laundry so I can wear them again, then suffer the rest of the week with outfits I don’t feel comfotable in.

The idea of downsizing has come to me over the past two years and the more I sit with the idea the more I like it. Since I’ve committed to it, I’ve donated multiple bags of books, kitchen items, etc. that I once thought I couldn’t live without.  I thank the universe every day that I became an e-reader as I would have a home that I could barely walk through with the rate that I used to buy books at. The part of my home that remains untouched though,  is my closet.

I have done some minor things. For instance, I only have one pair of heels now. It took years of me trying to be a heels girl to realize I am not a heels girl. I’m short enough to be a heels girl, but I have this thing about loving my toes more than my appearance and also my coordination is flawed. There’s nothing wrong with being a heels girl though. If you love ’em, wear ’em and rock ’em then you do you. I’ve had enough rolled ankles to give up on the entire thing and just whittle it down to one pair for special occasions. Also, I threw out all my old plastic hangers last year and gave myself some Blair Waldorf ones just to feel less cluttered and also because, well, Blair Waldorf. 

For this month’s challenge I’ll be creating a capsule minimalist wardrobe and I’ll share photos of my progress each week as well as the challenges that come up and bits of fun information I glean along the way. Jessica Rose Williams defines a Capsule Wardrobe as:

” A wardrobe full of your favourite clothes. It’s a well curated collection of quality items that you’re happy to wear again and again, suit your lifestyle and won’t go out of style. It isn’t based on trends or a one size fits all formula. Everything in it compliments each other and as a result you need less clothes. A year round capsule wardrobe needn’t be more than 50 pieces, it may be less (mine is 32), and owning one will show you how little clothes, shoes and accessories you actually need.

Jessica Rose Williams – How to Build A Year Round Capsule Wardrobe

My research to prepare me for this will be the lovely Jessica Rose Williams book and The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondō

Also, before pictures are so much fun and so, here are mine: 

Next week, I’m taking every single item out of the closet and dresser and throwing it on the bed for inspection of worth. That photo should be fun. Until next week! In the meantime you can see my thoughts on twitter, photo updates on life and monthly progress on instagram and goodreads for my progress on the books I’m reading for this challenge.